Earth to Earth, Ashes to Ashes, Dust to Dust

Our hearts have been heavy these last few weeks as Norm's mom just passed away, only 4 months after his dad. I think she died of a broken heart, after 60 years of marriage I can only imagine it would be difficult. We've been in Tulsa for the memorial service and getting the house cleaned out of all their worldly possessions. Some kept, some given to family, some sold, more disposed of. It really makes you think....everything is so final....time flies by way to fast and then it's just gone. It's hard getting older, even harder losing the ones we love. I saw something at the graveside service that I've never seen before. They had a basket with doves inside. After the pastor performed a short service, Norm & his brother opened the basket of doves, up poped their heads, looking around for a few seconds, then they took flight, up...up...up into the air, circling around a few times, then they flew back to their home. I did not know doves were trained in that way. It was the most beautiful, sweet thing I have ever seen. And so appropriate. I remember right after Norm's dad's funeral, his mom saying "I guess he's up there flying with the birds". The doves symbolized the both of them, flying high in the sky, with the birds they loved so much. What a outstanding send off to two special people who meant so much to so many.

Sister-in-law & the beach (Rock Port, Tx)

Norm's sister Debbie flew down from Wyoming for a visit and we took her to Goose Island State Park in Rock Port, Tx. Hauled the 5th wheel down there and I was able to get my beach walking fix I've been longing for. Poor Deb, allergies attacked her as soon as she stepped off the plane in Austin, she was sick the entire time. We had no agenda, just rest and relaxation. I like those vacations.